It is more soothing to be near to the people and things you adore the most as distance usually suck relationships. But the situation changes a bit when your life poses an obstruction. I am one of many people who feel unpleasant after being away from their important things.
Thus, it is believable that long-distance relationship usually affects considerably. Actually it becomes hard to stay with such a relationship as every lover is different. Their expectations and limitation regarding their love relationship can also be different.
However, I am going to enlighten the darkness caused by a long-distance relationship. In order to know about my passions, my dreams and the things that can make my life happy in this Millennial age as a self-divorced woman, I am in constant touch with around 20 females.
It will be wrong to say that my previous relationships did not suck me when I was physically close to them.
My method of loving can be out of my control sometimes. Therefore, I had that I became more independent, ambitious and healthy when I was forced to stay from my love for considerable time, due to various reasons discussed here under.
More dedicated time for yourself:
When you want to satisfy and please someone constantly, sometimes it becomes hard to spare time for your own care, which is very important for everyone.
You can put yourself at priority:
While in long-distance relationship you have more time to study, to be active, to strengthen your physical and mental health and to make goals and achieving them for yourself.
Less needy and more independent:
I become mentally more engraved and clingy when I was close to someone important in my life to behave according to his time by devoting all of my time to him. All of my daily tasks include his company and doing for me looks weird. I feel more comfortable after being on my own even though I enjoyed doing many small things together like pumping gas and shopping grocery etc.
More time for family and friends:
Sometimes, while being in a relationship, you ignore several other people who were important in your life before the appearance of someone special. You should not forget the loving people who can do whatever you want. So you should ensure to be with all of your loved ones as you have limited time and your existence on the other day cannot be guaranteed.
Main elements of your relationship:
A relationship is based mainly on three elements- trust, effort, and communication. In order to maintain a normal relationship one has to do lots of works but long-distance relationship actually tests your potentials. Your successful teaming with your partner, even when he is miles away, is the real evidence of strong bonding between you both.
Your relationship will always remain fresh:
When you are in the arms of your love after a few weeks or months then you will always feel new excitement with open arms and big smiles.
Absence of unnecessary and petty fights: When you meet your love after considerable time for a limited time period then instead of wasting it in irrelevant and stupid arguments you will like to make the best use of every second and minute by filling it with kisses, cuddles, and hugs.
Travel to new places:
You will like to travel to new places with your partner even if you are together for a few days. Such journeys can be treated as a reward for the efforts you have made to maintain your long-distance relationship.
Makeup the lost time:
In the bedroom, you can recover the time you have lost while being with your partner without any criticism.
Long-distance relationship is a waste of time unless you are passionate for extraordinary love:
If I do not really feel a strong spark I will not be even in a long-distance relationship. The worth of long-distance relationship will be clear to me only if I can put my heart and love on the same line. I will be with my love until the end of this earth only after knowing its worth.
So the love and its eternal boundaries should be applauded as it is not affected by any distance. I am thankful that my present relationship reminds me of all such things daily.